During sex, you can use your voice at any time and your partner should respect that. Speaking up can mean anything from telling your partner to stop, or even gently coaching your partner so that what they’re doing feels better for you. To be clear, sex should be enjoyable for everyone in the act, and if it’s not, you have every right to speak up. But when those depictions of fantasies don't include all the other things that accompany sex - like consent, or safe words if necessary, or discussion of the terms or acts - that could lead to a very messed-up view of what sex is and should be (which is: enjoyable for both consenting parties). “One of my friends has started treating women like he sees on the videos - not major - just a slap here or there.' - a 13-year-old male said.
“Its give a unrealistic view of sex and our bodies makes us self consious and question why are bodies are not developed like what we see online.' - a13-year-old female said.
